Struggling with procrastination, perfectionism, or fear of failure? In this blog, Aviva Boxer explores the emotional roots of procrastination, why getting started can feel so difficult, and practical strategies to reduce overwhelm, regulate the nervous system, and move forward with greater self-compassion. Learn how anxiety, burnout, ADHD, and perfectionism may be keeping you stuck — and what you can do about it.
Read MoreWhy do so many New Year’s resolutions fall apart — often within weeks? Instead of blaming willpower or motivation, this article explores a gentler, more effective path to change. Through curiosity, self-compassion, and self-trust, real personal growth becomes possible at any time of year — without shame, pressure, or perfection.
Read MoreSomehow we have absorbed the idea that being tough on ourselves, including putdowns and insults, is the best way to motivate ourselves to make change, evolve and grow. We have internalized the idea that being nice or kind is letting ourselves off the hook and if we do that we won’t move forward in life.
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