Why do so many New Year’s resolutions fall apart — often within weeks? Instead of blaming willpower or motivation, this article explores a gentler, more effective path to change. Through curiosity, self-compassion, and self-trust, real personal growth becomes possible at any time of year — without shame, pressure, or perfection.
Read MoreSomehow we have absorbed the idea that being tough on ourselves, including putdowns and insults, is the best way to motivate ourselves to make change, evolve and grow. We have internalized the idea that being nice or kind is letting ourselves off the hook and if we do that we won’t move forward in life.
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